A friendly reminder to women of every age:
Sex doesn’t make you an adult. It’s not a rite of passage and it doesn’t change you fundamentally.
Sex isn’t needed to prove that you love or appreciate someone.
Sex isn’t something inevitable. No one has the right to demand sex from you, not your date, not your hookup when you’ve changed your mind, not your spouse of thirty years, no one.
Everyone has a sex drive of their own kind. It can be active. It can be very low. It can be a flatline. Whatever it is, it deserves to be respected and accepted.
Sex is intimate, personal and makes us vey vulnerable. Never force it. Be safe, smart and respectful of yourself and others!
(via blackfemmeguide)
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